Stubborn Over Weight Blues
Every year at about this time frustrated people around the globe look in the mirror and realise that their waist is larger, hips are wider, and their New Year’s resolve has fizzled.
So, what do you do about the stubborn and seemingly permanent fat?
Sink into a depression?
Well, the easiest thing to do is to throw a pity party. Then before you know it your feelings of self-pity begin to snowball into a full-blown case of the Over Weight Blues.
How do you know if you have the Over Weight Blues?
- Your clothes are tighter today than they were a year ago
- You’ve tried to lose weight only to fail.
- You feel trapped.
- You’re close to giving up on yourself.
If you can relate to any of the above statements, then you have the Stubborn Over Weight Blues, quite an unpleasant condition to have.
Fortunately, there is a cure.
It all starts with your mind. The thing about the Stubborn Over Weight Blues is that it affects your mind more than anything.
You see, your mental state is critical in determining your shape and size. When you focus on all the things that you hate about your current body like the size of your thighs, the shape of your butt, or the way your belly looks then you’re putting all your energy on the negative.
The more you think about how unhappy you are, the unhappier you will become.
Makes sense, right?
So instead of wallowing, use the following techniques to conquer the Stubborn Over Weight Blues:
1. Take it one battle at a time.
You may have 20, 50 or 100 pounds to lose before you reach your ideal weight and that can be overwhelming. The truth is that weight loss like that won’t happen overnight, it takes months of dedication. It’s no wonder so many people simply give up.
Don’t worry about winning the entire war today, instead focus on conquering one battle at a time. Take it one meal at a time, and one day at a time. A healthy meal, a good workout and you’ve won a battle. Remember, 100 pounds is broken down into 350,000 calories. Sure, that sounds like a lot, but all you have to do is focus on burning more calories than you take in today, in the end weight loss will be inevitable.
2. Use a trigger.
How many times throughout your day do you find yourself plagued with negative thoughts? I’m too fat. I’ll never look as good as I used to. I’m not attractive. Yikes! Thoughts like these will ruin your chance at regaining your figure, they are total momentum killers.
Here’s what I want you to do. Whenever a negative thought enters your mind instantly do the following:
- Breathe out and squeeze your abs for 5 seconds – 3 times
- Throw away any junk food within arms reach
- Plan to exercise that day
Make negative thoughts a trigger to take positive action toward your goal, the results will amaze you.
3. See what you want.
If you have weight to lose, mirrors are a nightmare. Every lump and pouch seems to jump out with alarming illumination. And it doesn’t help that most of us see things as worse than they really are.
When was the last time that you closed your eyes and pictured the body that you wished you had? It may sound corny, but I’m serious. Your mind is very impressionable, and when you bombard it with only the negative then you will be stuck on that image.
Take time each day to visualise your ideal body. Close your eyes and put yourself in that body. Feel what it feels like to be fit and attractive. This exercise is a powerful way to fixate your mind on your goal in a way that will leave you no room for failure.
4. Get serious.
Sooner or later you will decide that you are fed up with the Stubborn Over Weight Blues. You will decide that your health is important. You will decide that you deserve to look great. And you will do what it takes to achieve amazing results.
The best way to ensure that your motivation stays strong and that your goal is met, is to get on a programme that works. If you need help finding the right program for you. I can help.
Together we will identify your goals, find activity programmes that you enjoy and create a routine that works with your schedule and lifestyle demands. It’s that simple. Then you can say goodbye to the Stubborn Over Weight Blues!
Gerry Barnes